How to Host Your First Dinner Party
So, you’ve decided to host your first dinner party? Maybe you’re a little nervous or intimidated, or just want it all to be perfect! I’ve got you covered with my top entertaining tips & an easy guide to get you ready for an evening of laughter, delicious food and tons of fun.
Don’t stress – with a bit of planning, I’ll help you throw a dinner party that will have your friends ready to come back for seconds.
How to Host Your First Dinner Party
The Guest List
Start by making a list of friends you’d like to invite. As you’re making your list, consider any dietary restrictions or preferences your guests might have so you can start planning your menu accordingly.
Invitations
Get creative with your invites! While digital invitations are convenient, sending out personalized invites can set the tone for your dinner party. Physical invitations can add a personal touch and are a great way of setting a theme and getting your guests excited!
Don’t forget to include the essential details like time, date, location, attire, theme, etc.
Theme & Decor
Choose a theme to make your dinner party memorable. It could be as simple as a color scheme or as elaborate as a costume party.
Regardless of the theme, you can decorate your space to match the theme with candles, lighting, fresh flowers and accents to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. Don’t forget to set the mood with a carefully curated playlist!
But don’t let Pinterest overwhelm you. The goal is to make your place feel inviting, it doesn’t have to feel like a set for a home décor magazine shoot.
Menu Planning
For a stress-free evening, opt for a menu with a mix of dishes that can be prepared in advance. Choose recipes that you’re comfortable making and that won’t keep you stuck in the kitchen during the party. Consider a theme for your menu that ties back to your overall party theme.
If you’re nervous about cooking, you can also opt for a catered dinner. There are elegant, formal catering options and even more casual street food style options. Another great option is having a potluck and your guests can bring drinks and items they like to share.
Prep Ahead
The key to a successful dinner party is preparation. Plan a menu that allows you to do as much as possible ahead of time. Chop vegetables, marinate meats and prepare appetizers a day or two before. This way, you can focus on being a fabulous host when the day arrives.
Signature Cocktails & Mocktails
Create a signature cocktail and mocktail for your dinner party – it adds a personal touch and sets the tone for the evening. Prepare batches in advance so you’re not playing bartender all night. Having non-alcoholic options for those who prefer them is also a nice touch.
Seating Arrangement
Consider the dynamics of your guests when planning the seating arrangement. You don’t have to make a formal seating chart, but it’s can also make things fun.
Seat talkative guests next to good listeners and mix up personalities to keep the conversation flowing. Don’t stress too much about it though, it’s okay to let the seating be spontaneous.
Keep It Light
As the host, your energy sets the tone for the party. Keep things light, be flexible and don’t be afraid to go with the flow. If a dish doesn’t turn out as planned or a game falls flat, embrace the imperfections and enjoy the company of your friends.
Have Fun with Games
Plan a few simple and entertaining games to keep the party lively. Whether it’s a game related to your theme or a classic board game, having an activity on hand can break the ice and keep the energy up.
Takeaways
Send your guests home with a little something to remember the evening by. It could be a small surprise, a homemade treat or even a personalized thank-you note. It adds a thoughtful touch and leaves a lasting impression.
If you want to throw a next level themed party, check out my Harry Potter Party blog post!