Revenge of the Solo Traveler: East Coast Summer
Solo travel can be kind of intimidating, especially as a girl. I went on my first “solo trip” when I was 19 and traveled throughout Germany for 2 weeks by myself. I remember being so beyond overwhelmed by the flights, language barrier, confusing smells, jet lag, etc.
“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” – Jack Canfield
Yes, it scared the crap out of me, but it also taught me that I’m an independent, badass that can do whatever she wants. Since then, I’ve gone on countless solo trips. I travel pretty frequently to visit my boyfriend and I make an effort to spend a little time exploring on my own.
This past week, I flew to Boston (on my own) and spent the night walking around exploring. It’s pretty invigorating being alone in a new place. I walked around for about an hour, grabbed a drink and ate pizza alone at a bar. That sounds kind of lonely, but it’s really nice just taking it all in sometimes. I found a really cool hotel called The Onyx. It was small, but still had great amenities, including a gym! They have bikes you can borrow in the lobby to ride around the city which is super cool. Oh and did I mention the killer robes? Rawrrrr. It’s really helpful finding a comfortable hotel. You’ll feel more in your comfort zone. I recommend going with a smaller vibe because it feels a little cozier and you can chat more directly with the hotel staff about things to do.
The next day, I met up with my boo for their first show at the Paradise Rock Club. It was really fun being with him and getting to see a few of their shows. Literally nothing makes me happier than seeing him, so I’m really grateful that I have the flexibility to travel and see him doing his thing.
From there, we went to New York. I had a day off alone and couldn’t really figure out to do with myself. I spent a good chunk of my morning working and then decided to go out and explore. I tried to go to Black Craft for a milkshake, but they were total assholes when I asked how long the line would take. As great as the milkshakes looked, I was over it when I experienced their tudes’. So, I walked to Georgetown Cupcakes in SoHo. SO. GOOD.
I spent most of the day walking around, just kind of taking it all in. I love SoHo because there’s tons of shopping and it’s got a really fun vibe. I picked up a few things at Planet Blue, literally my all time favorite online store that has a flagship in NYC. Grabbed lunch at a cute little cafe and charged my phone. Kept walking (hello exercise). And later in the day met my babe at one of my all time favorite restaurants, THE MEATBALL SHOP! I’m obsessed with their Mushroom Gravy and Turkey Balls with Mashed Potatoes! Oh and did I mention whiskey root beer floats!?
From there, we went to Philadelphia (mmm cheese steaks) and then I flew home (solo style). Which all got me thinking, what are my main tips for flying solo and traveling like an independent boss babe?
- Research
Do a little digging. Maybe start small with a couple of nights somewhere not so far away. Wherever you’re going, research the city. Find a list of restaurants, sights & things you might want to do. It’s also smart to research the neighborhoods. What are the safest neighborhoods? Which areas should you stay away from?
2. Book a Place to Sleep
Whether it’s a hotel or even Airbnb, find somewhere to put your bags and relax. Sometimes it’s overwhelming being on your own, but having a room to stay in takes the edge off. It’s reassuring knowing that regardless of your day, you have somewhere to sleep. I usually use booking.com but I have friends who have used Hostelworld in the past and loved it. Another great option is Airbnb because it’s cheap and you get a more “home like” experience.
3. Share Your Itinerary
I always share my complete travel plans with my boyfriend and my dad. I make sure they’ve got all of my flight details, hotel info, general schedule, etc. I also let one of them know any time I go out exploring or have something planned so that they check in with me to see how it’s all going.
4. Don’t Rely on Your Cell Phone
I always keep a printed out copy of my itinerary in my purse or backpack. Why? How many times has your phone died on you? The last thing you want is your battery fizzling out and not knowing where to go or what to do. With that… always keep a cell phone charger with you and an external charger for backup!
5. Have a Little Extra $
Ok this isn’t always the easiest part, but make sure you’ve got a little cash and some extra money in your bank account. If you end up at a sketchy hotel, this “backup fund” will allow you to change hotels or get yourself into a better situation. Shit happens. Be safe and have some backup funds.
6. It’s All in the Bag Baby
I highly recommend bringing a cross-body bag instead of a standard purse. Why? It’s a lot harder for someone to reach in there and steal your phone or rip it out of your hands.
Do you have any trips planned? Tell me where you can’t wait to travel to!